Friday, January 7, 2011

Ten Ways You Can Be Happy

The Fun Factor



Chapter One



MAKING YOURSELF A HUMOR BEING



A middle-aged CEO sat dejectedly in my consulting room.

It was only mid-morning, but he had the look of a weary m an who

had already put in a full day’s work. His clothing reflected expensive

tastes and the wealth to indulge them.

He spoke haltingly. “I thought that when I got to this point

in life I’d be happy. I’m making more m oney than I ever im agined.

I’ve got three homes, a beautiful wife, great kids and expensive toys

I can’t even find the time to play with.”

He went on. “I’m a successful man. I should be free to do

anything I want. But I can’t get free. I have no time to enjoy any of

it. It feels like I’m on a treadmill and I can’t get off. I’m trapped by

my success and it doesn’t make me happy.”

I thought I saw tears welling in his eyes. Embarrassed by

this, he looked furtively around for a tissue.

“Where the hell are your tissues?” he grumbled. “You’re a

shrink for God’s sake. Surely you have a tissue.”

“Do you want a new one or a used one?” I replied.

He looked at me sharply.

“The new ones cost extra,” I added, keeping a straight face.

He looked confused. Then he burst into laughter. It lasted

for much longer than my silly joke warranted. When he caught his

breath, he had a different kind of tear in his eye.

“That’s the first good laugh I’ve had in a week,” he said. “I


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used to laugh all the time. That’s what’s m issing!”

“Sounds like you’re not having any fun,” I ventured.

“Damn right! That’s why I’m here. You’re the Laugh Doctor.

So make me laugh.”

We got to work.